How do you change your flash so that it doesn't say "click to make controls work" or something?

It just started to do this. Whenever i go to what i think is a flash page (i%26#039;m pretty sure it%26#039;s a flash thing) i scroll over things and there is just a huge box around the whole area where there is flash. If you leave your mouse point at the same place, the message says something like %26quot;click to activate controls%26quot; It never did that before. So i have to click the whole big box and then the normal flash is there. But when i go to a new page or refresh, it does it again. How can i make the flash controls automatic? or just make it stop doing that, it used to never do that. Although it might not be flash, but i%26#039;m almost 99 percent sure it%26#039;s flash|||You can%26#039;t. Microsoft got sued and part of the settlement that is how they have to handle some Apps that need some Active X controls. It started with your last regular MS update.